Relationships between individuals and families are different and dynamic. Some parents may want to know lots of information about you at the beginning, while others may desire information in smaller chunks. It’s okay to assess, share, and reassess communication dynamics throughout the relationship, just like you would naturally do in other friendships and familial relationships.
Start here: When first meeting a parent, choose 2–3 of these key pieces of information to share about yourself/your family.
- Family members in the household
- What kinds of things their child has been up to at your house/with members of your family
- That you are there for them and their reunification
- Things you enjoy about their child
- That you would like to get to know them (or demonstrate that you would like to get to know them by asking them questions)
Questions to consider asking at this stage: What are some things I could do to make you feel supported? What information would help you get to know me? What type of communication works best for you?